LEARN TO BE UNSELFISH. ALWAYS PUT THE OTHER’S INTEREST FIRST

Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interest of others. Philippians 2:4.... It is healthy for a married man or woman to pursue personal interests and engage in individual activities. This provides an outlet, a sense of freedom, perhaps some exercise, and interaction with others- plus, it makes for a more interesting, well rounded spouse, which keeps the conversation at home lively! However, the level of your involvement in these pursuits must be weighed carefully against the effect it will have on your marriage. We must consider our partner’s needs as well as our own. Recognize how precious and limited the resource of time that God has given you as a couple. Your spouse has a large stake in any decision you make concerning how you spend your hours, because every choice has important ramifications for you both. Too much time apart will both erode the unity and deprive you both as a couple. What can you do today to put your spouse’s interest first?