LEARN TO TALK THINGS OVER

The words of a man’s mouth are deep waters Proverbs 18:4.... When two people get married, they need to find a way to understand each other, or the relationship will soon be in trouble. If they are wise, they will do one of two things; either learn to read minds or polish their communication skills. A common problem couples face is that both spouses think their partner ought to be able, in some mysterious way, to perceive what they are thinking and feeling. For whatever reason, at some point the idea if he loves me, he should know what I need- without my having to tell him! Gets implanted in their heads. And of course, this expectation goes unspoken. Words are mighty tools for nurturing intimacy, maintaining unity, resolving conflict, and sharing hopes and dreams. Language, ability to express our deepest thoughts and sentiments and reveal our true inner selves through the spoken word, is a beautiful gift from our loving creator. We must not neglect it! Real communication goes beyond words. It includes eye contact, tone of voice, and body language. And there are two main components to the act of communication: talking and listening. The latter is not a passive activity; it is an active process that should be practiced and mastered. Learn to listen well, and you will be amazed at what you discover in your spouse’s heart and soul. Today is a perfect day to apply this to your marriage!